How should girlfriends act at parties? Its simple, depending on what type of party a couple is attending different forms of behavior may vary. Let me begin with parties one would never bring his/her partner to; bachelor/bachelorette parties, and baby showers are completely out of the question. These events are same sex orientated and should not be interrupted with parties.
If you should decide to bring your girlfriend to a party, you should not feel like you have to "babysit" her. When you attend a party the incentive is to enjoy yourself. Simple stated no one wants to watch their girlfriends every move to ensure non-embarrassing moments. If your girlfriend has a low tolerance for alcohol then she should keep her drinks to a minimum. If she drinks too much and starts stumbling all over the place its your job as the partner to remove her from the setting ( discretely of course). If your girlfriend likes to dance than dance with her, its extremely important to trust her which means let her know its not a big deal if she dances with other people. If your girlfriend is dancing with other guys, it would be inappropriate for her to grind or do anything that looks too sexual on the dance floor. So basically keep any form of dancing with a another guy to a "two step" minimum (excluding girl on girl dancing). Your girlfriend should not cling on to you at the party, which means as the partner you should leave her alone for a bit so she could explore her setting while you do the same. This time frame of exploration should not be very long, keep it brief and then she will either go check on you or you check on her. If you were in a lovers quarrel before a party do not bring the issues to the party leave them home and deal with them after the party. No one wants to deal with your drama, because we go to parties to have a good time! Flirting is key, if a someone hitting on your girl do not not sweat just take it as a compliment. She obviously looks great and your are not the only person who notice this. Now she should keep conversation with the purser very short but not too short. Because if its too short its going to look like she is doing something wrong is is having thoughts of doing something wrong so its important for her to be polite. Back to the dancing, your girlfriend should not dane with you in a too intensely, for example if she is doing things or moving in motions that are normally preformed in the bed then she is doing too much! No one needs a sneak peak at what is going down after the party.
Its nice to to hangout with your girlfriend at a party, as long as everyone knows the rules.
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9 comments:
good one blogg is this strickly a hetero. how to guide to party etiquette.. :)
This is amazing, I could not have said it better myself. TIffany your witting skills impressive!
My girlfriend, needs to read this! She doesnt follow any of these rules, will their be more blogs about dating?
dude, i have been waiting for an article like this! my boys cant stop talking about it!!
yeah, but what about my man? he needs to know proper boyfriend etiquette, can we play both sides please!
I dont agree with this at all, I mean my girl isnt dancing with anybody while i AM around because i think thats disrespectful
This article is so one sided. What happens when the guy drinks too much? And why shouldn't a baby shower be shared with the whole family including the husband or boyfriend. Afterall, the soon to be blessed event will effect them both.
And what happens when he's inappropriate when dancing, etc, etc, etc.
Love your articles but try to stay a little more neutal.
You have to express more your opinion to attract more readers, because just a video or plain text without any personal approach is not that valuable. But it is just form my point of view
Great advice thanks!
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